2.13.2011
2.06.2011
My Turn
So i guess i should contribute just a little bit to this blog thing of ours. But for those of you who know me, you know that i don't blog, or facebook, myspace, or talk too much for that matter. So i will keep to what i do best and make this short.
Erin is the love of my life. That means i am looking forward to spending eternity with her. Eternity. That is such a long time(understatement of the century), but i am really looking forward to it. An eternity with the love of my life.
Valentines day is coming up, and I've been known to get the best gifts for Erin. And this year is going to trump them all. Granted it won't top the Christmas gift i got her, but it is pretty dang good. So why am i bragging about this? Because i know it is going to drive Erin crazy until i give it to her. Payback for making me write on this. I love you Erin. ;)
Erin is the love of my life. That means i am looking forward to spending eternity with her. Eternity. That is such a long time(understatement of the century), but i am really looking forward to it. An eternity with the love of my life.
Valentines day is coming up, and I've been known to get the best gifts for Erin. And this year is going to trump them all. Granted it won't top the Christmas gift i got her, but it is pretty dang good. So why am i bragging about this? Because i know it is going to drive Erin crazy until i give it to her. Payback for making me write on this. I love you Erin. ;)
2.04.2011
a thursday evening.
Last night was the first night Broc and I had together this week that wasn't consumed by other obligations.
We talked the night before about going to dinner and maybe a movie, just spending some time together and being a little spontaneous. Well... when you're both going to work and school full time you don't come home with a lot of energy. Going out seemed like such a good idea the night before and even throughout the day I was looking forward to it. But this is the exact conversation that went on when we both got home...
We talked the night before about going to dinner and maybe a movie, just spending some time together and being a little spontaneous. Well... when you're both going to work and school full time you don't come home with a lot of energy. Going out seemed like such a good idea the night before and even throughout the day I was looking forward to it. But this is the exact conversation that went on when we both got home...
Broc: "So... where do you want to go tonight?"
Erin: "Hmm... I don't know. You decide."
Broc: "Well we've got lots of gift cards from the wedding we haven't used yet. And we bought a Dixie Direct."
Erin: "Yeah... I still don't care. You choose."
Broc: "No you."
Erin: "Well do you want to go out?"
Broc: "It's up to you."
Erin: "No you decide."
Broc: "I don't want to."
Erin: "Me neither."
So to say the least, we stayed home and ate chicken noodle soup
while watching the countdown of the top 100 best performers of all time.
Broc was super mad that Elvis came in at number 8. When Prince was voted as number 5 Broc yelled
"He's just a PRINCE! Elvis was the freaking KING!!!".
If you were wondering who the top one was... The Beatles.
I still think MJ should have taken it.
King of Pop
Live on forever
while watching the countdown of the top 100 best performers of all time.
Broc was super mad that Elvis came in at number 8. When Prince was voted as number 5 Broc yelled
"He's just a PRINCE! Elvis was the freaking KING!!!".
If you were wondering who the top one was... The Beatles.
I still think MJ should have taken it.
King of Pop
Live on forever

1.25.2011
Birthday Boy!
Today is Broc's twenty second birthday! 22! I still feel like we're 17 but Broc gets told on a pretty regular basis that he looks at least 26 so I guess it's time he start looking like his age. I thought I would dedicate a post just better introducing you to the birthday boy and my cute and adorable husband. Here's some fun facts about Broc Knowles Hafen...
1. Broc was born on Jan. 25th 1989 in St. George Regional Medical Center.
2. According to his mom, he was a chunky baby!
3. He is the second of four kids. Sandwiched between two blonde haired brothers.
4. As a toddler he would walk around the neighborhood with nothing but cowboy boots on.
5. Broc's hair had to be perfectly parted and slicked for school as a kid.
6. He played baseball when he was young and hated it.
7. His hair was strawberry blonde when he was little.
8. He lived in the same neighborhood his whole life until he went on his mission.
9. His best friend Peter taught him to play soccer.
11. He LOVES soccer, video games, and Peter.
12. He was in a middle school band.
13. He got his drivers license 6 months after he turned sixteen because he was fine with riding with Peter every day.
14. When he did get his license he drove around a 1970's orange chevy.

16. Before I really knew him, someone described Broc to me as a "chick magnet".
17. Broc passed every AP test he took, even AP Calculus without a calculator.
18. He loves fruity candy. Especially skittles.
19. He use to throw his spare change in the garbage until I made him save up to go to a concert with me.
20. He bites his fingernails when he's bored.

22. He had braces.
23. And has a heart murmur.
24. And gorgeous eyes.
25. He's a Mountain Dew fan.
26. Broc is the most ticklish person I know.
27. He once turned the back bed of his truck into a Mountain Dew cooler.
28. He was on the exec. counsel in high school.
29. He almost stole the keys from the dogs mouth on Pirates of the Caribbean in Disney Land.
30. Broc use to write poetry. I'm trying to get him to start again.
31. He was called to serve in Madagascar from 2008-2010
32. He learned Malagasy.
33. And lost 40 lbs. on his mission.
34. And wrote home every week.
35. He made some best friends on the mission.
36. He spent nearly 3 days traveling home...alone.
37. He became a Chris Brown fan.
38. He worked at Olive Garden before and after his mission.
40. He took my dad golfing to ask for my hand in marriage.
41. He doesn't golf.
42. He doesn't like white ankle socks. Must be mid-calf and black.
43. He's color blind.
44. He could eat Durangos every day of the week.
45. He is very protective of what boys his sister Sage dates and has become the same way with my sisters.
46. His mom calls him Broccer.
47. He wanted to be a doctor before his mission but changed his mind to business.
48. He gets his homework done the night before and never saves it for the morning.
49. He loves pickles.
50. And rice.
52. He lays his clothes out every night.
53. His favorite scripture is D&C 6:36
54. I think he secretly wishes he could dance.
55. He likes to leave large tips.
56. He doesn't like back massages.
57. Or hot chocolate. Two things I cannot live without.
58. He likes things neat and organized.
59. He liked his hair long before his mission and likes it short after.
60. He always has Streetlight Manifesto songs stuck in his head.
61. Broc loves ham.
62. And chicken.
63. He can't fall asleep with the tv on no matter how late it is.
64. He always smells delicious.
65. He's loyal to his friends.
66. Material things don't mean much of anything to Broc.
67. He has an eye for detail and design.
70. He has a freckle on his lower lip.
71. He almost always has facial hair.
72. He is awesome at cleaning.
73. He does our laundry.
74. He enunciates very clearly when he's talking on the phone.
75. Broc works for a company called Botanicals.
76. He loves youtube videos.
77. He's adorable when he laughs.
78. He flosses before he brushes.
79. He falls asleep on his back.
80. Broc loves watching the discovery channel.
82. He loves spending time with his friends.
83. He once climbed out of the back window of a truck into the bed while his friend was driving on the freeway.
84. He has never broken a bone.
85. He always has clean toes.
86. Broc can't leave a restaurant table messy.
87. He likes his car super clean.
88. He likes to feel appreciated.
89. He gives genuine compliments to others.
90. He reads his scriptures every night.
91. He rarely uses lotion, if ever.
92. He married his high school sweetheart just like his parents.
93. He only wears a few select ties.
94. He makes funny faces in pictures almost more than he smiles for them.
95. He yells "honey I'm home!" when he comes home from work.
96. The first matrix is his favorite movie but hates the others.
97. He has more than one BEST friend.
98. He sings loud in church. And in his car. But not in the shower.
99. He's sarcastic. Although he thinks that's a bad thing.
100. He loves summer and wearing flip flops.
101. He has a terrible memory.
102. He's 6 feet tall.
103. Broc wears a waterproof watch.
104. And two rings.
105.Like I said earlier, he looks much older than his age.
106. His grandmas adore him.
107. His friends look up to him.
108. His brothers respect him.
109. He's made me the happiest girl in the world.
110. He's the best husband, son, brother, friend, and just all around person ever.
Happy Birthday Broc!
You are loved.
You are loved.
1.11.2011
Sometimes when you're married, the best stories you have are embarrassing ones.
So... we were ever so blessed to move into a place that was fully furnished with couches, a tv, a washer and dryer, etc. Whenever we would do the wash, the dryer would make a "rrrrrrr" sound when the load would finish. We could never get it to start on the setting cold/cold so we were washing everything warm/cold and it seemed to be doing just fine; except the fact that our colors were a little duller and our whites weren't so bright. Well last night Broc came in to bed saying that he fixed the washer. I didn't know that anything was seriously wrong so I couldn't imagine what he fixed. He said " I hooked up an extra hose that was just hanging down and now we can wash our clothes cold/cold!" It's funny the things that bring you excitement and fulfillment when you're married. We laid in bed until it dawned on us both that the "rrrrrrrr" sound at the end of a cycle always happened when the nob was on "rinse". Our cycle was set to warm/cold. So the "rinse" part was suppose to be the "cold" part and the "cold" tube wasn't hooked up to the washer till last night. We've been wearing un-rinsed clothes for the past two months. Fantastic.
Embarrassing story number duos. We were completely and totally out of food in our apartment last night so for FHE Broc and I made a run to Walmart. I went straight from work and got there a couple minutes before Broc so I decided instead of waiting for him by the walmart greeter I would make a quick run to the bathroom. I walked in and there was one stall open so of course I took it. I called Broc to find out where he was and by the time I left the stall I was the only one in the restroom. I stood in the mirror washing my hands and scrubbing pen off my face that I mysteriously got there at work when I heard the voice of a little boy talking extremely loud outside by the drinking fountain. He was asking his dad to go in to the bathroom with him and it sound like their voices were coming closer and closer. In my mind I kept thinking "oh my goodness! They're coming into the girls bathroom! This is going to be awkward! Do I have time to run into the stall and save them embarrassment?". But instead I just stood there frozen when around the corner came the little boy I had heard and his very grown up father. They both froze. I was still as frozen as the piece of chicken in my freezer. The dad was the one to break the awkwardness and he said "either you're in the boys bathroom or we're in the ladies, but either way this is really awkward. But I'm pretty sure this is the boys..." I was speechless. I quickly walked out and when I saw the stick figure in pants I yelled back to him "you're right!". I just hope no one saw me exiting. Meanwhile I found Broc waiting where I should have been, by the Walmart greeter.
1.03.2011
Miss Brooke
Ya know those gaggy nicknames that every couple has for each other? Baby face, love button, butt nugget? Chris McCann I don't know you yet but stop calling Jessica Marshall that. It's just gross. Broc's always called me Miss Brooke. Ever since he knew that was my middle name. He gave me a ring before he left on his mission with "Miss Brooke" engraved on the inside. Every letter he addressed to me on his mission was addressed to "Miss Brooke". Last night I fell asleep on the couch while he was playing a game on the computer and he woke me up an hour later telling me he had something for me. A star. A star he named Miss Brooke.

So when you look up in the night sky, look at the coordinates
RA 2H 9m 35.35s, and Declination 58 6m 4.35s
if you know what the heck that means and you'll see her. My star.
haha feel free to gag now.
12.30.2010
My husband rocks.
Broc came home about 2 weeks before Christmas saying that he found my christmas present and that it was going to be awesome. He told me that we had a limit on each others gifts of $100 and that his was even under that much. He bragged and bragged about how much I would love what he got me and I struggled and struggled to get him something that would compete with the bragging for under $100.
On christmas morning I found out that my husband is a liar.
12.29.2010
Christmas Traditions
Anyone who knows me knows that I absolutely love love love christmas. Before I got married I was the one to hang the lights on our house, I brought up the tree the day after Thanksgiving, I played Amy Grant christmas music in September... don't judge me. I love the holidays! This year was close to no different. We were on our honeymoon for Thanksgiving so I made my family wait to put up their tree for when I could be there. My sister Taylor took the responsibility of putting up the lights on the house and Amy Grant came on the ipod speakers a little late but she was still there during all of the cinnamon roll making. Broc and I even had our own little christmas tree in our apartment. Christmas kinda just crept up on us all this year I think. It was the wedding and then BAM we were out caroling. But christmas with my family never disappoints. And this year I got to spend it with another whole family with new traditions. Broc's family knows how to celebrate christmas with the best of them. Here are some of the traditions that will live on forever...
Homemade gifts-
Every year we draw a name out of the family to make a homemade gift for to be opened on Christmas Eve. It's a surprise on who you have and what you make. Here are some of the ones from this year...
I made Brynlee a headband





Gifts not pictured: Broc made me a computer cover
Mitch and Brynlee made purses for Ashley and Taylor
Lexi made a coloring book for Michael
The Nativity-
We always joke in my family that my moms side and my dads side are very different. Not in any bad ways, just different. The best way to describe that is the example of our Nativity. We do the reenactment of the Nativity every year on both sides. Here's the difference:
The Esplins The Wades
Esplins put their sweatshirts on their heads as shepherds. The Wades go into hair and make up before the show. Both, The best Christmas traditions ever.
12.28.2010
Friends
Broc and I have had the same group of friends since high school and some of those individual friendships go back much further. This Christmas break we've spent a lot more time with them and I am always reminded of why we love them so much! We went to Russ Christensen's cabin a couple days before Christmas. Here are some of the highlights...
The camera was set to "self timer" and was sitting on a dresser right below a mirror. We all smiled like this for at least 10 seconds. The mirror made it hilarious.
Russ found his moms' silky pj's and wore them to bed

cousin cousin cousin
And it's not a party until Crystal puts an owl on her head and walks around spooking people.
There is always a sing-along when we get together.
...
It mostly starts with "Breakfast at Tiffany's"
...
And ends with "Counterpoint"
Life's always a little bit better when we're all around.
12.19.2010
Honeymoon
Here ya go Jessica. I'm finally blogging about our honeymoon. You have something new to read at work again. Broc and I chose to take a cruise to Catalina and Ensenada Mexico for our honeymoon. I had been on a cruise when I was seven but don't have many fond memories of it because I was stuck in the kiddie camp the whole time while my parents went to my dad's work conventions on board. All I remember was making tambourines out of paper plates and beans. Broc had never been so we decided to give it a shot.
Day #1
We woke up early, scraped off the windows and set off to California. We got to Long Beach with no problem but getting to the pier we had some trouble.
But eventually we got there just in time to wait in line after line. We were going through security and they seemed like big sticklers about what was allowed on the ship. Broc had his butterfly pocket knife on him and quietly asked where he could turn it in and pick it up after the week but the woman quietly replied in almost a whisper "just put it back in your pocket". Ha that made us feel safe. We got settled into our room and then had to go to a safety orientation in the main lounge. The ship was beautiful so we didn't mind sitting in the lounge listening to our South American cruise director give instructions that no one listened to nor understood. The best part was on any announcement over the loud speaker he would finish with "ciao for now! woo hoo!". 
We found the 24 hour buffet which we visited almost all 24 of the day. And we went to the dinning room and met the other people on our table. They were two couples also on their honeymoon! and from Utah! We got along great. Especially with our polish waiter. The trick is to order 2 or 3 entrees because one is never big enough.
Day #2
Catalina day! We ate breakfast at the buffet on the ship. The funniest part of the morning was looking over and seeing an older couple that had 6 bud lights for the two of them! for breakfast! Oh you gotta love cruise drunks. Some of our best entertainment of the week was paid for on other people's drinking tabs. We had a great time at Catalina.


We just walked up and down the streets and in and out of shops most of the time. It's a beautiful island and Broc fell in love with it. We ate lunch on a street bench and Broc couldn't resist feeding the dozens of pigeons. He threw a milk dud on the floor and almost killed one! Seriously I thought after having that big hunk of chocolate and caramel goodness jammed in his throat he would just eventually just tip over dead. Oh Broc. So mature. Love him though. 


After a day of the island we made it back to the ship just in time to get ready for formal night. We went to a comic before dinner and laughed our heads off. During dinner that night all of the waiters sang for everyone. With all of their accents combined it made for a hilarious show. The six beer drinkers just happened to be on a table next to ours. She was decked out in sequins and he was in a tuxedo topped off with a cowboy hat, beers in both hands.

Day #3
Ensenada day! We got off the ship and took a bus to La Bufadora, a huge natural blow hole. The bus ride was about an hour long so we got to see a lot of the city. It was freezing that day! We got off the bus and had to walk through a bunch of vendors to get to the blow hole. Broc's good at bargaining! He scored me a beanie to warm my freezing head!




We went back to the ship early that day because it was so very cold. We got the first season of Boy Meets World for our wedding so we watched that in our room for like 4 hours straight. We had dinner that night at the same table with the same waiters with the same people but a different menu. Everything was so good!! The pictures were posted that night of the formal night the night before. Broc and I walked around for forever just laughing at most of them because of how funny some cruisers can be. Then we hit up the 24 hour ice cream bar before going to bed.
Day #1
We woke up early, scraped off the windows and set off to California. We got to Long Beach with no problem but getting to the pier we had some trouble.
We found the 24 hour buffet which we visited almost all 24 of the day. And we went to the dinning room and met the other people on our table. They were two couples also on their honeymoon! and from Utah! We got along great. Especially with our polish waiter. The trick is to order 2 or 3 entrees because one is never big enough.
Day #2
Catalina day! We ate breakfast at the buffet on the ship. The funniest part of the morning was looking over and seeing an older couple that had 6 bud lights for the two of them! for breakfast! Oh you gotta love cruise drunks. Some of our best entertainment of the week was paid for on other people's drinking tabs. We had a great time at Catalina.
After a day of the island we made it back to the ship just in time to get ready for formal night. We went to a comic before dinner and laughed our heads off. During dinner that night all of the waiters sang for everyone. With all of their accents combined it made for a hilarious show. The six beer drinkers just happened to be on a table next to ours. She was decked out in sequins and he was in a tuxedo topped off with a cowboy hat, beers in both hands.
Ensenada day! We got off the ship and took a bus to La Bufadora, a huge natural blow hole. The bus ride was about an hour long so we got to see a lot of the city. It was freezing that day! We got off the bus and had to walk through a bunch of vendors to get to the blow hole. Broc's good at bargaining! He scored me a beanie to warm my freezing head!
Day #4
At Sea
I got up early to go to the gym on board because there is no feeling like you haven't gained 40 lbs. while on a cruise. We got a late breakfast and just hung around the top deck for most of the day. There was an ice sculptor that sculpted a huge indian chief head in honor of Thanksgiving that day. There were people that actually got in their bathing suits and were laying on lounge chairs with goose bumps covering their bodies. Broc and I felt great just laying on lounge chairs in pants and a jacket. For dinner that night they had a thanksgiving option on the menu but because almost every single one of the employees on ship and most of the guests weren't american it didn't seem like the holiday. But we got mashed potatoes and turkey to celebrate with the two other couples on our table. The waiters that night sang "Leaving on a jet plane" in honor of the last night on the ship. It was priceless.
(more pictures coming soon)
Day #5
Leaving back home
We got off the ship by about 8:30 a.m. because we were smart and didn't check any luggage in to be carried off for us. We were sad to be leaving but excited to be going home to our cute apartment and all our family and friends that were still home for thanksgiving. The best part about leaving was the excitement of starting "real" life together.... and so far we LOVE it. :)
Ciao for now! Woo Hoo.
12.13.2010
pink towels and other married things
Don't think that I got married and fell off the face of the planet because I haven't posted anything in a while. Us newly weds don't have internet at the moment and it's KILLING me. Here are some of the recent adventures of the new Hafen pair...
-We slept on sleeping bags as sheets for the first two weeks of marriage.
-I turned our white towels pink yesterday.
-We are AWESOME at warming up left overs now.
-Saturday night date night consisted of wandering around barnes and noble debating on what to buy with our wedding gift cards. We were there for over an hour.
-We found out that we're horrible grocery shoppers. So excited to come home and make dinner with what we bought but realized you can't make anything with flour, oil, ranch and grapes.
-took a lot of gifts back to target and made a bet on how much we'd get back for them. Broc was $2.05 off. The prize was getting fifteen dollars to spend however you wanted at target and of course Broc's choice was to not spend it at all.
-We are overly obsessed with Boy Meets World now. Got the first season for the wedding and have since bought the 3rd and 4th. Still trying to locate the 2nd.
-Found out that we both cook top roman differently. I couldn't imagine there would be more than one way.
So life is good at the Tamarak Condos. Still waiting for our land lord to come take the massive horse painting away. When your biggest worry is trying to figure out what the best thing to use to scrape your car windows in the morning is, then I consider life pretty great.
xoxo,
The Hafens
-We slept on sleeping bags as sheets for the first two weeks of marriage.
-I turned our white towels pink yesterday.
-We are AWESOME at warming up left overs now.
-Saturday night date night consisted of wandering around barnes and noble debating on what to buy with our wedding gift cards. We were there for over an hour.
-We found out that we're horrible grocery shoppers. So excited to come home and make dinner with what we bought but realized you can't make anything with flour, oil, ranch and grapes.
-took a lot of gifts back to target and made a bet on how much we'd get back for them. Broc was $2.05 off. The prize was getting fifteen dollars to spend however you wanted at target and of course Broc's choice was to not spend it at all.
-We are overly obsessed with Boy Meets World now. Got the first season for the wedding and have since bought the 3rd and 4th. Still trying to locate the 2nd.
-Found out that we both cook top roman differently. I couldn't imagine there would be more than one way.
So life is good at the Tamarak Condos. Still waiting for our land lord to come take the massive horse painting away. When your biggest worry is trying to figure out what the best thing to use to scrape your car windows in the morning is, then I consider life pretty great.
xoxo,
The Hafens
11.28.2010
The Hafens
That's right, we're married now. November 20th was the day we became the Hafen's. I wish writing a blog post about it would do it justice, but even if I had the best blogger I know write it (katie wade-kapoesy) I don't think we could recap the magic of that day.
11.18.2010
losing it
Amidst all this wedding stuff I think it's fair to say that I'm officially losing it. This morning proved it. Every monday night I dreadfully set my alarm for 4:48 a.m. to make it to kalamity practice at 5:00 (Kalamity (Ka-LAM-it-ee): a sicky sick sick hiphop group). I usually get home around 6:30 to a still silent and sleepy house, except my 11 year old brother Mitch. He's always up watching mythbusters at the crack of dawn. Today I had to work at the Zions Bank Hurricane branch. I got on the freeway and imediately started stressing about what I had to get done for the wedding when I got off work. My mind was going 300 miles an hour and my car going just shy of that when it dawned on me that I had passed the Hurricane exit long before. I was half way to Cedar City. I would have driven to Provo had I not looked down and saw that I was in my work clothes. I had to keep driving ten minutes to the next exit and then explore in a one street town for the I-15 S entrance. That actually didn't take too long. It was a one street town. Now I'm standing at a teller station at an almost never visted branch needing to feel productive since there is so much I could be doing so I'm writing this post just to keep me from going insane. And that was a run on sentance. I'm losing it.
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